Disappointed but, I Still Have Hope

My daughter-in-law, Hyunjin has been having some health issues that they have been going to doctors for since August. My son, called me yesterday with what the latest news is. I am sharing his Facebook post below.

As their Mom, this post and what they are going through breaks my heart.

Yet… I believe in a God that can do the impossible and I am praising Him for the impossible He will do through this situation.

One verse that always comes to me is : Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways submit to Him and He will direct your path. Proverbs 3:4,5

I am trusting in the God who loves me and you.

“As for me, I will always have hope; I will praise you more and more.” Psalm 71:14

Very Thankful

This year, was the first time after three years that both my kids and their families were together. God has been so very good to us. I say, “lucky” but, it is really all God.

I should have gotten a family photo but, there was so much going on, I missed doing that.

We are still so lucky to have them all over!

Birthday Boy

Today was Leonard’s 67th birthday. He likes to get gifts. This year, I only got him one gift, but he was so excited to get it.

I was lucky to find his jeans locally. So, it was quite a surprise for him. I love that!

This year, my decorating left a lot to be desired but, luckily he thought it was great.

Happy Birthday to my hubby and… many mooore! 🙂

Friends

Friends enrich our lives in so many ways. Especially long time friends.

Whether we see those friends only briefly or on a regular basis, they so bring joy to our lives. So blessed and lucky are we!

Here my daughter had a special time with her friend since Kindergarten, Devin and her very special friend, Kyungjin. Kyungjin was a foreign exchange student Tina’s senior year in high school. They had a very close friendship.

Devin, Kay and Tina

Being Crafty

After making valances for our living room windows, I had lots of leftover fabric.

I decided to make tote bags for my daughters students. Then found age appropriate books to add. She will be handing them out Friday so they can use the tote bags for Halloween. I hope they like them.

30 tote bags ✔️

Beauty and …

I’m not sure when we started having “dumps” or landfills. I do know that people used to put things they didn’t want anymore on parts of their property away from their living space.

Obviously, in times past, they probably didn’t have as much waste as we do now. In any case, our property did have older items out in the woods. Leonard found some hubcaps that we found kind of fun.

This insignia was on the hubcaps that Leonard found. We later found out that they came off of an Edsel car.

Even though I think summer is my favorite season. All the other seasons have a beauty all their own. We are so lucky to live in an area where we can witness God’s marvelous handiwork!

This year, the colors are breathtakingly beautiful!!

Warning: Controversial Subject

For the most part, I try to keep upbeat. Sometimes, I fail at this attempt. Recently, I have found that it is more of a struggle with some of the ideas in our world. I am utterly devastated and appalled at the views on abortion. I cannot wrap my mind around the fact that in my lifetime they would be stating that killing another human being is a right…that they label it not as killing another human being, but women’s reproductive health. What is healthy about damaging a woman by the devastating physical and emotional procedure of exterminating a living being? The procedure itself is pretty barbaric. Sucking the baby out, or dismantling the baby to sell the parts. Some claim that it is not a baby yet. I believe that life begins at conception. According to even an older medical encyclopedia that has a copyright of 1965, claims that development at the end of the first month (way before you realize you are pregnant), the brain, heart, liver and spine are already developed. I am sure that at this date, they are more aware of earlier development.

When did we become a nation that sold human body parts for profit? This is a midterm election year and a lot of politicians are using this issue as part of their campaign. I just can’t believe it!! “Vote for me! I’m all for killing babies for profit.” Of course, they don’t say that…no one would vote for them then. Killing babies is big business. Planned Parenthood, should really be called Planned Un-parenthood, because that’s where they get their money and lots of politicians are backed by Planned Parenthood. Would they push so hard for abortion if they weren’t getting donations from Planned Parenthood?

Our state will have the debate of abortion on the ballot this November. People are being brain-washed into thinking it’s a good idea and it will probably pass. The devastation of this being written in the Constitution will make it irreversible. This, if passed, would be the most extreme in all the world. It would allow termination of babies after birth, during birth. It would allow minors to be sterilized, get puberty blockers and sex change surgery without parental consent or knowledge. Part of the wording of this proposal states that it would “allow the state to regulate abortion in some cases”. So, if a parent didn’t want their child to have an abortion, and the state wanted to give them one. You would not have a choice, your child would not have a choice. This does not sound like freedom to me. It also states that this proposal on the ballot would” Allow state to regulate abortion after fetal viability“. I had to look up fetal viability and this is what I discovered: “Fetal viability is the ability of a human fetus to survive outside the uterus.” So, this proposal is saying that even if a baby can survive outside the uterus, it would be up to the state whether that baby lives or dies. This seems pretty barbaric to me. Seems rather holocaustic. Even if you are pro-abortion, this proposal seems way too extreme. When you give the state the right to determine who lives or dies.

Of course their are no pat answers for things that happen in our world, but… could it be that the mindset of it’s “okay” to abort a baby and not have a reverence for life, has caused a lot of these shootings? If we don’t consider life the most valuable thing there is, what does that say about us?

I realize this is a downer post. It is just something that I am struggling with. As a disclaimer: These are my thoughts and everyone has them.

So Good

God is so good to us! We are so lucky to have a God that cares and gives us so many blessings! Yesterday, we went fishing. God provided so much for us. The beauty of Northern Michigan, fish and vegetables to sustain.

A couple years ago, it was so hard to get canning lids. I purchased some online and they have not proved to be good quality. Last night, while processing tomatoes, I was removing a jar that had one of those lids. When I placed it on the counter, the lid blew off!! 😳 Boiling tomatoes came out of that jar with such force!! All over the counter, walls, appliances, floor and unfortunately, on my hand and lower arm. I immediately rinsed off the tomatoes with cold water and applied lavender oil. I kept a bag of frozen corn on it for awhile. It was quite painful. This morning, the pain is gone and I have just a few areas where I missed putting lavender oil on that have blistered. I am so thankful that I had lavender oil on hand. Lucky!!!

Despite this mishap, I feel so lucky and blessed for God’s provision and that I didn’t have my face down there!

One thing I find interesting, is that I never felt I had anything in common with my grandmother. This year, as I ponder things… I find that we do have some similarities.

When I was 10 years old, my grandmother slipped on a rug and fell into her bathroom. Our dog, “Lucky” snuggled up to her all night keeping her warm in the old farm house. In the morning, she crawled across the large farmhouse kitchen and pulled herself up the refrigerator where the phone was kept on top to call us for help. She had broken her hip. Similarly, when I fell in our driveway, I crawled to our shed and pulled myself up the upright freezer and I also had broken my hip.

My grandmother always had a brown spot on her cheek. When asked about it, she claimed that a pressure cooker blew up in her face while canning. Her face was burned but she applied a Swedish liniment that she called Pitsi and the brown spot was an area that she had missed. Hmm. Similar! In any case, we have much to be thankful for.