If I have learned anything from this experience of falling on and breaking my hip, it’s the importance of exercise. Even though we know the importance of exercise, sometimes we fail to put it into practice. I have a dear friend, that knows the importance of exercise and diet and lives it faithfully. She has encouraged me through the years to incorporate this into my life. Unfortunately, I did not heed her encouragement and all that I knew to be true. I got into a rut of lack of exercise and bad diet. I believe, that had I been in better shape before the fall, the recovery wouldn’t be so hard. Even though I can walk around my house without the walker or the cane (most of the time), I still have a quite a limp. As I do walks around my driveway, that limp is still there and it is difficult, but it has given me a determination to turn my life around and make exercise a priority. So, I encourage you, at whatever age you are at… get out there and “move it or lose it!”. 🙂
Patience
Throughout my lifetime, I have had to exhibit extreme amounts of patience. From assisting in caring for my elderly grandmother when I was young, to all other aspects of life and I’ve learned it quite well. I can honestly say that I have much patience with people. Although, apparently I have much to learn. This process of healing has meant that I have to be patient with my progress. I have not always handled that well. I would like my leg to work better than it does despite the hard work that I have put in. The therapist keeps telling me it will come and I’m sure she knows. She is a very good therapist, encouraging me to do those tough things. I believe that I have more patience with others than I do myself. This is nothing new. So, with God’s grace, I am trying to be patient with recovery. If I look at when I first came home to now…yes, I have made leaps and bounds. I was able to attend church on Sunday, which blessed my heart to see my church family. They are so loving and kind. The encouragement that I have received from friends and family has been phenomenal!
Shifting gears, I found a tutorial online for these cute carrots that I filled with Easter candy for the grandsons. I did a bit improvising from the original directions but, I think they turned out well.

Saturday, Leonard and I went to the cinema matinee of “Lost City” with Sandra Bullock. I enjoy her flicks. That was a good afternoon!
Despite what happens each day, we are so lucky! Lucky to have family, lucky to have friends, lucky to have professionals that do their jobs well, lucky to have a God that intricately designed us and is the God of healing…and with His help, I will carry on in this recovery journey that may give me more understanding when others have something similar, so I can assist with their healing. Lucky that God makes it a journey so that we can appreciate the victory. I don’t deserve to be this lucky, but praise God that He does not give us what we deserve.
We Truly Are the Lucky Ones!
God willing, next month will be Leonard and my 42nd wedding anniversary. Through those years, I have to admit that at times, I really did not have a good attitude with the person whom I decided to spend my life with. I’ve made a lot of mistakes and due to my sensitive nature, have often been hurt by what I persevered as lack of care or love or wherever. As with everything in life, there have been highs and lows. Yet, I am fortunate that Leonard has had the same determination to stick it out through thick or thin. This recent what I’ll call “low” in our life of my falling and breaking my hip and the journey of regaining what was lost, has taught me a few things. Even though, at times in the past, I have doubted it… Leonard really does love me! He has been encouraging me when I try to work at getting my body to do what I want. That’s not to say, that sometimes, because of my moodiness of not being where I want to be, have I thought that he was being as attentive as he could be. Yet, he has. I think with everything, you have to have a positive outlook. Try as I might, that’s not always the case. I know this has been hard on Leonard, too and yet, he has been encouraging me and bragging me up on any slight progress that I’ve made. When you leave things to the Lord, he just makes everything turn out right.
Ever since, I had my accident, I have been showered with well wishes, dinners, texts,encouragement, visits. How lucky is that!? I have been so lucky to know an assortment of lovely people in my lifetime. The photo below, are cards I have received, each with their own story of why they are special to me. A representation of the kindness of people. Every time, I look at these cards, I reflect on each person and their uniqueness and how much their friendship means to me.

Yesterday, I turned 63! What??? As I’ve stated before, I love smiley faces and daisies with a little Snoopy thrown in.. 🙂

My day started out, with a text from a sweet lady from church, then text and call from my brother,Nels. Followed by a visit from my dear friend, Chris. A visit from my cousin, Susi and in the afternoon, my daughter, Tina and grandson, Isaac came to visit and she took us out to dinner to Cafe Sante! She also, bought me a paint by number canvas and I am excited to try my hand at it. My brother Carl and sister-in-law, Cindie left me a voice mail singing Happy Birthday and said they would visit today. Along, with that, I received many birthday cards which I cherish each one.



I don’t deserve to be so lucky… but, here I am! Leonard, has extended an offer for a celebratory dance when I recover! 🙂
These two are so fun to go anywhere with…





As parents, when we are young and raising our kids, we wonder if we are doing things right or not. I do not believe my kids are who they are by my parenting. I believe they are who they are by how God designed them. I am so lucky that God, in His infinite wisdom, designed my kids to give me what I need to live a positive life. Of course, He didn’t create them this way, just for me. He also created them this way, for all the lives they would touch in their lifetime. Tina, with her drive and determination and her fun loving and caring personality, brings me much joy. Brian, has much discipline and drive, that causes me to try and extend myself.His care and concern and encouragement and fun personality blesses my heart.
I am truly, truly one of the lucky ones!
Fun to see
When your kids don’t live close, even though you adore your grand kids, you don’t get to always hear the cute things they say or some parts of their personalities. We have three awesome grandsons, awesome in their each uniqueness. They bless my heart whenever I get to spend time with them.
This weekend, my son and family came up for a visit. During that visit, they made us a couple awesome meals. Truly lucky that they are so kind. One of those meals, my son prayed over the meal and asked for help with my recovery.
He has two of the most adorable sons. My aunt has corresponding with them every since my youngest grandson had been diagnosed with cancer. Both boys do a wonderful job of writing. Lucas seems to have a special way of writing that shows concern for those hurting. Could it be because he had so much hurt himself? I don’t know.
After our visitors left, the following day my physical therapist said that I could try experimenting with a cane rather than relying just on the walker. So, my husband took a video of me walking with a cane and sent it to our kids.
Later, we did a video chat with my son and boys. Lucas shared that his Dad prayed and then I did get a bit better. This is fun for a Grandma that relies on prayer, to see her grandson notice it too!

Gifts
For many years, the part that I enjoy about people is their varying personalities and gifts. God in His infinite wisdom, knew that it is not through people that are like us that best give us the most enjoyment. It is when we surround ourselves with different personalities that things run smoothly, as everyone has their needed role.
Through this incident that has left me to the mercy of someone else’s care, I have been humbled, blessed and encouraged by the differing personalities. Each person in their unique way have reached out with compassion and love. I am truly a lucky woman.
When you have been married as long as we have, it has not always been 40 + years of marital bliss. We’ve had good times and we’ve had some not so good times. Some of that through our own misunderstanding or miscommunication. There were many times when I really didn’t think Leonard “had my back”. Through this present circumstance, I have been so impressed with how he has stepped up and helped me with things that I really know that he’d rather not do. He has been awesome! Although, he reminds me frequently, that he is not going to let me get too dependent. Ha Yes, I am lucky.
If you know me, you know that I love smiley faces. When Tina came to visit, she had cards that her 4th graders from her class had made to make me feel better. Oh how that blessed my heart!




My brother, Nels, has shown so much care and brought us meals that were delicious! We have been so lucky!
Tina and this guy

came over and made meals for us for the week. She is such a better cook than me..too bad I couldn’t have her cook more often. I felt like it was gourmet! Mmmmm! We have been blessed beyond measure by the generosity of those around us. We Truly ARE Lucky!
Last but not least for today, I could not fail to mention my new friend. He has helped me up, aided me in the most humble and unmentionable tasks that need to be done. He has helped me get in and out of bed and just been all around trustworthy. What would I have done without him?

Please don’t let him know…but , even though he’s been by my side… I am planning on breaking up with him as soon as I can! Shhhhh!
Despite any ups and downs that we may face. We continue to be and will always remain the Lucky Ones!
You just never know what a day will bring
Northern Michigan is known for it’s unpredictable weather. This past weekend. We had rain which turned to a sheet of ice, then light, slippery snow atop.
Monday, as I ventured out…which I thought was ever so gingerly to the garage to check something in our freezer…I had a most unfortunate event. My foot slipped out from under me and I slammed on the rock solid- ice. Right on my hip and I knew that as hard as I fell and the feel, this would not be good. There were many attempts to get up to no avail. So, I crawled into the garage. Again, many attempts and silly solutions did not bring about my desired result. After a little over an hour, Leonard noticed that I was taking a long time and came to see why. (I am so lucky it wasn’t any longer!) He totally freaked out as now, I could not only not stand or lift my leg, but was shivering uncontrollably.
He asked if I wanted him to call 911. I could see no way that he could get me into the car, so “yes” was my response. When the ambulance got there, two of the EMT’s also fell while getting out of the ambulance ( they did not get hurt)- how lucky!
The EMT said they were sure that I had not broken anything because if I had I would be screaming uncontrollably. So, when we got to the ER she shared this which was also a bit unfortunate. They were so packed, people in the hallways and the waiting rooms were packed. Majority were from falling on the ice. I saw person after person going to get x-rayed and to return to the waiting room. Why was I not being x-rayed? I asked Leonard to check and the woman said I didn’t need to be. After 6-1/2 hours, I was called and was so Lucky to get an ER nurse named Julie. She was so nice and awesome. She called for x-rays and it was determined that my hip was broken. Not only cracked across the bone, but the ball was pushed back to a 90% angle. They said that I would probably have surgery that night. Although, being that there were so many people, that did not happen.
I was admitted into a room and every time I had to be moved, it was excruciating . So many tests had to be done. I was so lucky to have an amazing staff. All were so nice. Even though, just laying there caused great pain. Those little things that we take for granted, using the restroom, positioning yourself, standing were among many others that come to mind.
Leonard called the kids and others to tell them that I was in the hospital. He said,” I talked to God and He said you are going to be alright..well, I didn’t actually hear Him say that, but you are!” I had many dear friends hold me up in prayer. I feel so blessed to have such friends that are close to my heart.
Brian and Tina seemed quite concerned and asked many questions. I feel bad that I worried them so. Andy and Luke wrote me letters which touched my heart.


Tina and Issac came to visit but they didn’t let Isaac come in since he wasn’t 18.
Tina also brought some cards her class had made . They were quite cute and touching
They planned on having surgery late afternoon on Tuesday but that didn’t pan out. So Wednesday was the new day.
I have so many dear friends that were praying for me and God in His mercy and grace listened and prepared the surgeon which told me last night that the surgery went wonderfully. I am so thankful and praise my God for healing, and to be lucky enough to have praising and caring friends. It will be a road ahead to recovery, but I know who will be holding my hand!
Nature
Always amazed at the handiwork of God. We are so Lucky!




No Masks Today
After two years of wearing a mask everyday at work…today, we didn’t have to!!! Feeling pretty lucky!
Wisdom
We all want it…sometimes we think we have it, at others, we feel we have none. Where do I go for my source of wisdom? Well, I go to the Holy Scriptures.
The Holy Scriptures- the living breath of God tells us in James 1:5 that if anyone lacks wisdom, that we should ask God for it. That in itself is a profound statement. If we want to know something, why go to another person. Go to the top! Go to the only Person who can see the past, the present and the future for eternity. The only source of true wisdom.
How many of you, whatever your age, feel wise? Job said in Job 12:12 “Is not wisdom found among the aged? Does not long life bring understanding?” I think that what Job is saying is that as we age, we start to see the whole picture, opposed to when we are younger, we tend to live in the now. Do you remember being a teenager, would you now consider those choices wise? Yet through our long lives, don’t we get understanding?
Also, Proverbs 13:10 states “Where there is strife, there is pride, but wisdom is found in those who take advice.” This tells me that if we want wisdom, we are to take advice from God first, then trusted others. How much pain we would have avoided had we heeded our parents advice. The times that they were upset with us for the choices that we made, was only their fear that we would be in harms way. For this reason, it was to our benefit when families lived in the same house. Aged grandparents are such a wealth of knowledge. Pure treasures to behold. Their wisdom is like gold to us, but often we don’t realize it until much later.
We do well if we have understanding. Understanding for the young, whose choices are based on emotion and not intellect. Understanding for the aged, to reap from the knowledge that they can share from a life lived.
Lord God, I pray for wisdom!
Never say Never!
I have all my life stated that I would not venture out on a frozen lake. I’ve seen all the devastating shows of people falling through the ice and being trapped. I have to tell you, that doesn’t sound like my cup of tea…
And yet, today I went beyond my comfort zone and went ice fishing with Leonard. It wasn’t TOO bad.



Also got to video chat while in the shelter with our grandsons. 🥰


In conclusion, we were once again lucky. (Lucky we didn’t fall through the ice!)